It is When Silence Wins That Our Children Lose

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The Crucible of Silence

My life was filled with everything that I had ever wanted ―a thoughtful husband, a terrific daughter, and a fulfilling career. Over the course of the last few years of our marriage, what had begun with an array of my husband's personal problems escalated into a horrifying maternal trauma. One unusually cold fall night, I discovered that the man I'd married was not who I thought he was ― but had been secretly sexually abusing our daughter.

In Part One of my memoir, I take the mask off the deeply disguised familial child sexual abuser. The face that is revealed is one of a person who lives a normal, law-abiding life and a secret one ― much like that of my college professor ex-husband. There is an unacknowledged secondary victim in this crime ― the mother and wife ― who will suffer in silence as she sets in motion the prosecution of her husband.

Dutch Catholic Child Sexual Abuse Report: December, 2011

The Associated Press released the findings of an investigative report  from a commission set up by the Catholic Church “under the leadership of a former Protestant government leader.” Over the past 65 years, widespread  child sexual abuse  was uncovered  involving “as many as 20,000″ children in Dutch Catholic institutions. “Based on a survey of 34,000 people,

Public Reaction Differs When Learning of Community Child Pedophile VS a Father Who Sexually Abuses His Child

COMMUNITY PEDOPHILE: When the public first learns that a child sexual predator is on the loose it triggers concern for their own and other vulnerable children. Commonly, there is an outpouring of support to the victim family throughout the search, arrest and prosecution of the criminal pedophile. FAMILY FATHER In my  book I document my experience

Penn State Sexual Abuse Scandal Has Unleashed Similar Allegations about Other Coaches Across U.S.

There seems to be one good thing about the media roar related to Coach  Jerry Sandusky’s alleged sexual abuse of numerous  boys at Penn State. The silence is being broken. More young boys are openly reporting sexual abuse by their athletic coaches and mentors. Mid December, 2011 the Sacramento Bee reported  that a Vacaville, California

Check Out The Two Types of Sexual Pedophiles

In Part Two of my book, The Crucible of Silence: My Journey to Prosecute My Husband for Sexually Abusing Our Daughter, you will find facts and statistics related to family child sexual abuse.  Here is one example: ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ “Pedophiles are subdivided into several classifications. One of the first distinctions made when classifying pedophiles is to determine

BOOK EXCERPT: Leaving Home with Our Daughter When I Learned My Husband had Sexually Abused Her

My daughter, Angela,and I were sitting  in the car at 2:00 in the morning. We were huddled together in our pajamas against the cold night when she revealed to me  her father’s heinous crime. EXCERPT: “When I heard the bewildering truth from our daughter that dark and fragile night, I tumbled into blinding light. Her